Tuesday, January 23, 2007

Pilgrimage

As the only member of the family (that I know of) to have made a pilgrimage to the land of our fathers, I feel an obligation to share my experiences. For those readers who are not family members, you probably already guessed this (based on my feather-light feet, my antelope-like quickness, and my keen hunting instincts), but I am part Native American. Yes, it is true. My family descends from the Indian princess Pocahontas, daughter of the great chief Powhatan. We have suffered some persecution because of this noble ancestry. When Amber told her elementary school teacher that she was related to Pocahontas, her teacher ridiculed her, and, since that scarring incident, Amber has ridiculed the rest of us for our 'foolish belief in the traditions of our fathers.' Still, many of us remain proud of our noble heritage.


A couple of summers ago, I went with Katie's family to the D.C./Williamsburg area, as Katie's dad had some meetings back there. We saw the sights in D.C. and spent a day in Williamsburg (which is one of the coolest places I've been). But we also went to Jamestown, the first successful settlement in the New World. It was there that our noble grandmother pled wither her father, the great Chief Powhatan, to spare the lives of the settlers. It is beautiful country. The marsh grass is green, and the trees are as ancient as the stars. I can only imagine how beautiful it was before the white man scarred the land with his buildings made of stone and steel. It had a familiar feeling, like a place you would go to in a vision quest. It felt like coming home, and I felt my blood running strong that day, like a herd of bison.


We heard the tour guide speak of the hardships suffered by the settlers. There was a statue of Pocahontas that had been erected in her honor. I had to laugh that the white man chose to memorialize her with cold, hard materials (the same cold, hard materials that they had used to drive the Native Americans from their native lands). Still, I appreciated the gesture of the statute, and I paid homage to these great people, my ancestors.


But what may have been most rewarding was the validation of my family's claim to being descendants of this great tribe. Next to the statue, there was a sign describing Pocahontas' life. It explains her intercession between the settlers and her father, her marriage to John Rolfe, her trip to England, her return back to America, the death of her only daughter, and the survival of her only son. The sign concludes by noting that many Americans claim to descend from Pocahontas through this son. I interpreted this to mean that my family's claim was not some romantic dream created to excite the imagination of the children in the family, but a legitimate ancestral claim.

25 comments:

cblakes said...

I think Angel had an experience like Amber - where she told her teacher, only to be rewarded with laughter.

Your comment about the statue being the white man's ironic tribute to Pocahontas made me remember when I visited Crazy Horse Memorial (http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Crazy_Horse_Memorial)
Basically, a white man started carving a mountain to look like Crazy Horse, and it's still going on today. Apparently not all Native Americans like the memorial, but I felt complimented and appreciate the gesture.

Hopefully I can also make a pilgrimage of sorts to Jamestown one day.

Spencer Davis said...

Ian-
It appears that you and Pokahontas have the same nose. I guess thats just further proof of our royal blood line.

Excellent post.

Jayme said...

Alas, you have discovered our motivation for moving to Virginia--to acquiant ourselves with my ancestral home.

Ian said...

Yes, Jayme. I wondered if you had made a similar pilgrimage, living so close to Jamestown. Even if you haven't, I am sure that it is rejuvenating to constantly sup from the spirit of our ancestors that fills the entire region.

Chantalle said...

Nice post...and pics.

The persecutions still continue to this day w/ my children. Caedon was ridiculed for his claim as one of Pocahontas' progenitors.

However, our relation to Pocahontas is purely through marriage. Our line goes thru John Rolphe, her husband.

XOXO,
C

Chantalle said...

Nice post...and pics.

The persecutions still continue to this day w/ my children. Caedon was ridiculed for his claim as one of Pocahontas' progenitors.

However, our relation to Pocahontas is purely through marriage. Our line goes thru John Rolphe, her husband.

XOXO,
C

Chantalle said...

...or maybe ya'll already knew that.

either way i had to double post it for emphasis. haha. j/k...i am just a dork who is just now figuring out how to blog. pls forgive me :)

Ian said...

Chantalle, tell Caedon that I am sorry that he was mocked for his heritage.

I do not know if we are just distantly related to John Rolfe or if we are related to his and Pocahontas' son who came back to America with Pocahontas. But I like to think that we are related to Pocahontas through her son.

Anonymous said...

I am so sorry for you all. Our grandmother has lied to you and now you are spreading these lies to the next generation! I for one will not stand for it.
Your children diesrve to know the truth. . .Ralphs is not the same as Rolphe!!!!

Spencer Davis said...

Amber, people changed their last names all the time back then in order to avoid persecution. If what you say is indeed true, then I'm sure that little Thomas changed his name upon his return to the United States in order to avoid such persecutions.

It obviously didn't work. It appears that our family continues to be persecuted to this day.

Ian said...

Amber, it is not grandma who lied to us. Her father (a man who rarely even talked) told her about this heritage, and I am sure he was told by his fathers. It is an understanding that has been passed down from generation to generation in the oral tradition of our fathers. The very nature of the passing of the knowledge--the oral tradition--is evidence of our connection to Native American roots.

Katie said...

I think I side with Amber. I'm not looking forward to another generation of children being mocked by their peers.

I think Katie Blakesley is the only one who can put this to rest. I believe she actually looked into the geneology or something.

Also, I think there are many others who have much closer Native American ancestery who should be the ones staking claim.

However, I know this is something many of you are very proud of. Jamestown was neat. Ian, I know this was a special experience for you and I don't want to take away from that :).

Ian said...

et tu, Katie?

Katie said...

Ian, I am sorry. I know how much your heritage means to you. You can teach our children your ancestral ways. Love you!

Jayme said...

I cannot discredit our purported relation to the great Pocahontas, but I must request that someone clarify the basis of our relationship. Oral history indicates by syllogism that we are related to Pocahontas: (a) she married John Rolfe, which surname was later changed to Ralphs (b) our ancestral name was Ralphs; therefore, (c) we are likely related to Pocahontas.

Here is why I doubt the plausibility of our assertion: Pocahontas has no descendants of record that kept the name Rolf. The following chart outlines this point:

(1) POCAHONTAS
m. (2) John Rolfe

(3) Thomas Rolfe (b. 1615, only child of (1) and (2))
m. (4) Jane Poythress

(5) Jane Rolfe (b. 1650, only child of (3) and (4))
m. (6) Col. Robert Bolling

(7) Col. John Bolling (b. 1676, only child of (5) and (6)

As you can see, Pocahontas had only one child (a son (3)), who had only one child (a daughter (5)), who then took the name Bolling when she married Col. Robert (6).

Thus, unless we can prove one of the following, we cannot claim Pocahontal ancestry: Either (i) Pocahontas and John Rolfe had other offspring heretofore unaccounted for; (ii) Thomas Rolfe and Jane Poythress had other offspring heretofore unaccounted for; or (iii) we are related through the Bolling line.

NOTE: We are not the only family to claim this heritage. Some genealogists have claimed that the Bush family (including US presidents George H. W. Bush and George W. Bush) are descended from Pocahontas[citation needed] but other genealogists point out that this is a mistake based on the assumption that Robert Bolling Jr. (a 10th generation ancestor of George W. Bush) was the son of Robert Bolling and Jane Rolfe (granddaughter of Pocahontas). However Jane Rolfe Bolling died in 1676, six years before the birth of Robert Bolling Jr. who was the son of Robert Bolling by his second wife, Anne Stithe.

Amber said...

Thank you Jayme.

3703 said...

So if we say we are related to Pocahontas, we are affirming that we are related to the Bush's? There's a relation to pass down. Uncle Chris should be proud.

Jayme said...

No! We are will repeat the Bush family mistake if we continue to claim Pocahontas as an ancestor without actually verifying that we are, in fact, related.

Ian said...

A very interesting theory, Jayme. But I see one fatal flaw. It does not account for those of our ancestors who, proud of their noble heritage and aware of it through their oral tradition, changed their last name back to Ralphs in honor of our proud grandmother Pocahontas Rolfe (they did not change it to Rolfe because the name had been slightly altered in their collective memory as it was passed down through the oral tradition).

Jayme said...

Bahhh . . . Hearsay!

Chris Blakesley 1 said...

Hey-Ian,

Suzy and I visited our beloved ancestor, way back when we lived in D.C. We received blessings at her feet -- then had our heads, arms, and legs stuck in the stocks. S'what you get, I guess, for honoring your beloved forbears. I also felt a kinship with ol grandpa John Smith.

and so it goes,

le plus vieux salop,

Chris

12:50 AM

Anonymous said...

That is so sweet. You should be proud to be Pocahontas grandchild. I am also. Remember she became Rebecca, so she took more white traditions than Indian. I also am fair, but have cousins and a sister with darker complextion. I am very proud and would not trade who I am for a million dollars. sincerely, Sandi Suzanne Gibson Benune Gann

Anonymous said...

I'm sorry, but even if you were related to Pocahontas, the claim is so far-fetched and so far back in history that you don't have enough Native blood to make this claim. You are devaluing other people's NDN ancestry by insisting that the "white man" carved Pocahontas out of stone and that you have some right to the Native's persecution. I applaud you for trying to find out your ancestry, but don't forget the millions of Natives who died and who went through hell so that you can stand there and make the claim you do. More education is needed on your part. Much more.

- E

Unknown said...

Take your time, and do the research -- there are descendants of John Rolfe and Pocahontas. I found proof that I am descended from Thomas Warren, who bought his land from John Rolfe - around 1640. What difference does the fact that an Indian Princess is involved make? -- the joy of genealogy is in pursing the research and records - it takes lots of time, and sometimes years; but you don't have to guess, or suppose, forever. My family told the story of Thomas for a hundred years, but now I have documented sources, at last.

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